How to Know if Fear Has Infiltrated Your Body
Have you ever felt suddenly anxious or “on edge” and didn’t
know why? There are many reasons why we might
feel fearful at different times. We get scared about
things like physical danger, accidents, natural disasters,
and so on. These are all situations where fear can be
helpful because it triggers the “fight or flight”
response, which floods our bodies with adrenaline and
prompts us to defend ourselves or flee the danger.
Unfortunately, there are also plenty of other situations
where the fight or flight response is unnecessarily triggered
and we end up feeling threatened and defensive even when there
is nothing harmful about the present moment.
For example, we often fear job interviews, public speaking
engagements, social gatherings, sports and other performance
activities, doctor and hospital visits, and more. These
situations are not physically threatening yet our bodies often
react to them as if they were.
Have you ever struggled with irrational fears like
these?
Even though they may seem irrational, they actually have a
simple cause: your thoughts. When you are faced with a
situation that you feel unprepared to handle, your thoughts
begin racing with horrible possibilities. Your thoughts in this
moment might sound something like this: “I can’t give a speech
in front of people, what if I mess up? I’m no good at sports;
I’ll only embarrass myself if I try to play. I don’t want to go
to the doctor; what if he finds something awful?” As these
thoughts race through your mind they trigger the fear response
and your body begins reacting as if you were in actual physical
danger.
Physical and Emotional Symptoms of Fear
When fear begins infiltrating your body, you will notice
some unmistakable signs and symptoms. These signs include
tightening of your muscles, especially in the neck, shoulder
and back area; you may also feel a tightening or queasiness in
your abdomen; tightness or pressure in the chest, shortness of
breath, pounding heart, restlessness, and muscle weakness or
shakiness in the arms and legs.
Beyond the physical sensations you may also notice negative
emotions like defensiveness, irritability, frustration, anger,
aggression, sadness, and helplessness. Continuously being faced
with fearful situations can also lead to more serious physical
and emotional problems such as insomnia, depression, appetite
changes, weight loss or weight gain, and paranoia.
So, what can you do when you feel overwhelmed by fear?
Positive self-talk is one way to begin shifting your
thoughts from fearful to calming. Rather than worrying about
negative things that could happen, you might soothe yourself by
saying things like, “There’s nothing to be afraid of; it will
all work out fine; I believe I can handle anything; all is
well.” Even better, intend to do everything you can to
encourage a positive outcome for the fearful situation. You
could practice giving a speech repeatedly until you feel more
comfortable, or visualize the doctor giving you a clean bill of
health.
When you change the thoughts that are triggering your fear
response, the fearful feelings subside.
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